Meandering thoughts - Sita Sreeraman

  Picture Courtesy: Internet Disagreements are an inevitable part of life, no two people are the same, no two people can agree 100% on all the infinite things situations or people in life. So learning to accept that disagreements are here to stay and will crop up anytime is one of the main aspects of life.  We live and want to live with others harmonioulsy. And that depends on how one disagree with others - this template determines the overall quality and happiness of their life.  Others will always  be a part of our life - as family, colleagues, neighbours, freinds and community. My father used to say: with a smile, a twinkle in his eye and with no hard feelings; let us agree to disagree. He used to say it is the situation I disagree with, not you the person. He ruled from a place of love and led a happy content in life. My father was not alone in this, there were many in his generation who had the lubrication of good manners, tact and decency to hear the other per...

For Parents wondering what Sports you want to teach your kids to play! I find the game of Golf to be like buying an expensive sports car or an expensive branded handbag or dress. It speaks or tries to convey exclusivity or exclusion. Only the rich can afford it or I have arrived that kind of a thing. It costs a lot be it 1. the clothing  2.  the golf equipment- clubs, bag, balls 3. the golf course rental costs  I also find it an individual competitive sport best learned and practiced alone. And a money drainer, money that can be better spent on other things. I also don't see Golf players come back with healthy endorphins, smiling and contented like other sportsmen. They seem to be fixated on swings that didn't go well and disappointed. The light and air outdoors does not seem to work its magic on them or rejuvenate them in the way even a simple walk can. In contrast, a team sports like Football, Cricket, Hockey and ball sports like Badminton, Tennis, Table Tennis, Volleyb...

When we start chanting Mantras regularly or do good deeds, there will be situations where one is shaken to the core, one wonders why one should continue with the chanting or doing good. In such a situation, one has the choice to stop, to react. One also has the choice to continue without choosing to react, but responding i.e. by doing the right dharma. That's when magic starts happening, the inner victory over the external. CHOICE the choice to choose peace & harmony over being right the choice to cut some slack for inadvertent mistakes the choice to build friendly rather than a hierarchical relationships the choice to make others happy rather than being a kill joy the choice to include rather than exclude (Inclusive vs exclusive) Life is all about choices.

It was not easy understanding my Appa. Even when Appa was provoked, he chose to remain non judgemental. He would say it is the sitauation, not the person. So, sometimes it felt like Appa was aloof. I would often argue saying he had to say something. But he would just say - Saramillai (doesn't matter), the sky has not fallen. And smile it away. People collect money or houses or sarees or jewelry. Appa collected spiritual wealth the same way - be it through his regular Sandhyavandanam and Nitya Kriya, his Guru Bhakthi to Maha Periyava and following the Vedic tenets and way of life. Convenience was not the factor, nor was it done for popularity or name. Appa's value system and integrity were also iron-clad, no lying, cheating, saying rude or inappropraite words, treating all with respect, no slights, no power play, taking advantage of others etc. He was very very careful about what he accepted from others , be it as gifts. Runanu Bhandam - I may have to take birth once more he wou...

Sree Ramajayam We, in the south use Sree Rama Jayam, the Hindi equivalent being Jai Sreeram! Sree Navami is fast approaching, as is summer in Rama Janma Bhoomi or Bharat while it is spring in Swiss .i.e Vasantha Rithu.  Sree Navami brings memories of Sree Rama's birthday celebrations on Navami with oonajl or Uyyala songs, Ma Sita's birthday, Sita Rama Kalyanam in the temples, Radham or Ther on the streets, Malli poo, Panakam, Neer-moor and Vadapappu(Kosambari), discourses and kutcherys in the temple premises .Thyagaraja Swami's Utsava Sampradaya Krithis esp Uyaalalooga vayya, Sita Kalyana Vaibhogame, Mamava Sree Pattabhirama by Dikshitar, Jaya Jaya Janaki Kantha - Purandaradasa and Bhadhrachala Ramadas melodies fill the air. People read Ramayana and also do Likhita japam - writing Rama Nama.  Rama Nama is in the air - on people's lips and in their hearts. Rama's name evokes such wonderful emotions - the great son, warrior, husband, brother, friend, master, His digni...

I came across Shonda Rhimes' book "Year of Yes",  a few years ago.  The blurb introduced the author as the creator of Grey's Anatomy and other series. I am not familiar with the series but nonetheless was curious enough to flip through the pages though not the entire book. I told myself good idea, I should also try and say Yes when I can and try to do more diverse things, attempt new things especially ones that I am bit scared of or am uncomfortable doing. Anyways, that was that. I left it at that, I do remember my trying new things and then Covid struck and that was such a closed phase for the entire world.  Many years later today, I got a summary of the book via The Four Minute books. You can read the sumamry here -  https://fourminutebooks.com/year-of-yes-summary/ .   Here is a quote from the book: “I'm not merely lucky. No one who succeeds is merely lucky. Lucky implies I didn't do anything. Lucky implies something was given to me. Lucky implies that I ...

Sometimes things happen unplanned - spontaneously and effortlessly.  The unexpected Darshan of Guruvayoorappan after a dozen years was one such. And the December 2024 Margazhi at the MAA, TTK Road was another, days of beautiful concerts by the best of the best in a Concert Hall known for its acoustics, ambience and renown and where only the best get to perform. The MAA awards the Sangeetha Kalanidhi every year to the best Carnatic musician - vocalist or Instrument vidwans. More info @ https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sangita_Kalanidhi  The Academy set at the end of TTK road in Madras evokes so many emotions in me - nostalgia, reverence and awe; the level of expertise, dedication it demands of its artistes is the highest in the country. Artistes are aware of this honour too; they perform at their best here. And in the traditional format as laid out for the concert, starting with Varnam and then Krithis in familair and unfamiliar ragas with Alaapana, including heavy weight ragams...